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Framily Plan – Controlling Conflict
As long as there are _____________, there will be _______________.
5 Different Ways People Process Conflict
1. The __________________ 2. The __________________ 3. The __________________ 4. The __________________ 5. The __________________
James 4:1(NIV)- What causes fights and quarrels among you?…
As long as you blame others for your ________________, you will always be _______________.
James 4:1- What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?
There is _____________ within you that is creating ______________ with the people around you.
James 4:2- You desire but do not have…
Every time there is a _______________ in your _______________, it’s because there is ________________ you want that you don’t have.
James 4:2- You desire but do not have, so you kill…
James 4:2- …You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight…
Use these words:
“You know what ________ of the _______________ is? I’m not ________________ what I want.”
If you’re in conflict with someone and they’re ______ _____________ and you’re ______ ____________, you’re still wrong.
We only talk about __________ when something doesn’t ______________ us.
James 4:2- …You do not have because you do not ask God…
You don’t get what you want because you’re trying to _________________ it out of
________________ who doesn’t have it in ____________ to give you.
James 4:3- When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
Who is _______________ because you’re not _______________ your way?
Before you can make things __________ with the other ______________, you have to make things right with ________.