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Framily Plan – Controlling Conflict

As long as there are _____________, there will be _______________.

5 Different Ways People Process Conflict

1. The __________________ 2. The __________________ 3. The __________________ 4. The __________________ 5. The __________________

James 4:1(NIV)- What causes fights and quarrels among you?…

As long as you blame others for your ________________, you will always be _______________.

James 4:1- What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?

There is _____________ within you that is creating ______________ with the people around you.

James 4:2- You desire but do not have…

Every time there is a _______________ in your _______________, it’s because there is ________________ you want that you don’t have.

James 4:2- You desire but do not have, so you kill…
James 4:2- …You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight…

Use these words:
“You know what ________ of the _______________ is? I’m not ________________ what I want.”

If you’re in conflict with someone and they’re ______ _____________ and you’re ______ ____________, you’re still wrong.

We only talk about __________ when something doesn’t ______________ us.

James 4:2- …You do not have because you do not ask God…

You don’t get what you want because you’re trying to _________________ it out of

________________ who doesn’t have it in ____________ to give you.

James 4:3- When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.


Who is _______________ because you’re not _______________ your way?

Before you can make things __________ with the other ______________, you have to make things right with ________.